I don’t know where or when it started, but sometime or another we decided a woman’s worth was dependent on her relationship status. We decided if a girl was hot, she must have a boyfriend. If she didn’t, something was wrong with her. She was inadequate. She was undatable. We were told “all the good ones have boyfriends” and all the rest are crazy. If … Continue reading The Real Reasons The Hottest Girls Never Have Boyfriends
Those most deserving of our love and affection are too often overlooked. But to be fair, we aren’t always aware we’re overlooking them. People enter our lives only to later leave them. Some stay for years, others for decades, some for minutes and hours. And then, you have those very few who will stay with you for a lifetime. Many of us are lucky enough … Continue reading It’s Always Been Her: Why You Should Love The Girl Who Waited For You
One of my favorite (and funniest) sayings in life is from the movie, “Meet the Millers,” in which one of the characters has a tattoo that says, “No ragrets.” While this isn’t really supposed to be an inspirational moment in the movie, I find it incredibly hilarious to quote and important to keep in my mind. We tend to go through life with many regrets, or things we … Continue reading Sorry, Not Sorry
It’s been slightly over two weeks since I’ve called Jakarta home. Moving on my own here after being transferred for work is different. I guess it’s the same feeling anyone goes through when they move to a new country. The good thing is that I chose an apartment about 5 minutes away from the office. Sometimes, the driver picks me up and at other times, … Continue reading What’s Been Happening?
But I knew he have made a difference. To us, Singaporeans. Continue reading I Never Knew This Man
She must be alone because something’s wrong with her… There’s a fallacy women need to “attract” men. They need the perfect skirt, tempting lipstick and a good blowout. They need to be poised and intelligent, alluring and girlish. They need to be funny and witty, but not overly obnoxious. It’s the woman who needs to fit the mold of man’s dream girl; it’s the woman who must … Continue reading It’s Not That I Can’t Find A Man To Love Me, I Can’t Find A Man I Love
“Take that rage, put it on a page Take the page to the stage Blow the roof off the place” Today I remembered. Today I smiled. And today, I laughed. I laughed at what happened about 1.5 years ago. Looking at where I am now, I am proud to say that it doesn’t matter. It just doesn’t matter anymore. Someone so close to me told me … Continue reading And So I Thank You